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Why I picked up this book
I don’t pick up a book unless someone I trust won’t stop talking about it.
With Educated, three different people — in three different conversations — mentioned it within the same month. That doesn’t happen by accident. So I cleared my reading list and started.
I finished it in four days. That also doesn’t happen often.
What this book is really about
On the surface, Educated is the story of Tara Westover — a woman who grew up in the mountains of rural Idaho, never set foot in a school, and somehow ended up with a PhD from Cambridge University.
But that’s not actually what the book is about.
It’s about what happens when the story you were given about yourself — by your family, your upbringing, your religion — stops matching the person you’re becoming. And how terrifyingly hard it is to let go of the first story, even when it’s hurting you.
That question hits close to home for almost everyone. You don’t need to have grown up in a survivalist household to recognize the pull of family loyalty over personal truth.
What surprised me
I expected an inspiring rags-to-riches story. A clear villain, a clear hero, a satisfying ending.
Educated is none of those things — and that’s what makes it extraordinary.
Tara doesn’t write her parents as monsters. She writes them as people who believed, deeply and completely, in a version of the world that left no room for her. And she writes herself as someone who loved them anyway, who kept going back, who kept hoping it would be different. That ambivalence is the most honest thing in the book.
The scene that stayed with me longest isn’t the dramatic ones. It’s the quiet moment when she’s sitting in a library at Cambridge, surrounded by books, and realizes she has no idea who she is outside of who her family said she was. That moment is the whole book in one image.
I wrote a full review of Educated here if you want to go deeper.
Who should read this
Read Educated if you’ve ever felt the gap between who you are and who the people closest to you need you to be. If you’ve ever had to choose between belonging and becoming.
Read it if you loved When Breath Becomes Air, The Glass Castle, or Know My Name — that same quality of memoir where the writing itself feels like an act of courage.
Skip it if you’re looking for something light. This book asks something of you.
“Educated: a memoir”, describes the incredible but unusual life story of Tara Westover. Tara grows up in a Mormon Survivalist Home, isolated from the rest of the world. This book tells her journey from a strict and abusive childhood in rural Idaho to earning a Ph.D. from Cambridge University. Westover was raised by survivalist parents who kept her and her siblings isolated from the outside world and never allowed them to attend school. Instead, they were required to work in the family scrap metal business, which involved dangerous and grueling work. Westover’s father, Gene, was a violent and controlling man who inflicted physical and emotional abuse on his children and wife. Despite these challenges, Westover was determined to get an education and eventually managed to escape her oppressive household and pursue her dreams.
The road to obtaining an education was not easy for Westover. She faced numerous setbacks and obstacles, including her own lack of formal education and ongoing conflicts with her family over her decision to pursue higher learning. Despite these challenges, Westover was determined and resilient, and she eventually managed to earn her GED and enroll in college. From there, she went on to earn a bachelor’s degree and eventually a Ph.D. in history from Cambridge University.
Throughout the book, Westover grapples with the trauma of her past and the difficult process of reconciling her identity and her relationships with her family. “Educated” is a powerful and inspiring story of resilience, determination, and the transformative power of education. It’s a must-read for anyone who has ever faced challenges or adversity and persevered in pursuit of their dreams.
Before she turned 17 years old, Tara never received any proper schooling. After long hours of self-study she is permitted to university. Eventually she makes her way to Harvard and Cambridge. In this memoir you read about this fascinating journey in which she tries to adapt to a world that for us has become so normal and daily.
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Categories: Non-fiction, Memoires and biographies
List of awards
Educated: A Memoir is one of the most appreciated books by the community. Find some of the nominations and awards it has won.
Goodreads Choice Awards 2018
“Educated” won the Memoir & Autobiography category in the Goodreads Choice Awards, which is based on popular vote.
Alex Awards 2019
The book was selected as one of the ten winners of the Alex Awards, which are given annually by the American Library Association to adult books with crossover appeal to young adult readers.
Five stars!
I was able to read this book and it touched me to the core and I came out of it as a changed person. Very few books have ever had that effect on me, and it is relevant on so many levels. It will encourage people to be true to themselves and not keep dark secrets under wraps they suffered as children, often causing pain they carry for a lifetime and in many cases destroy lives – I salut the twins, Marcus and Alex Lewis for their bravery to come forward and share their lives journeys with us. Beautiful job by Hodgkin who tells the story with so much integrity. Even though shocking, this story is inspiring, and empowering and will bring about change. Bravo!
Intriguing coming-of-age story
This is an intriguing coming-of-age story, that reads like a psychological thriller. I have to say that I loved the book more than the documentary, but the story is either way very upsetting yet beautiful. I admire their courage of putting a story that’s so deeply personal out there.
Amazing simplicity
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This is one of the most decorated memoirs of the past decade. Here’s the full list of why — which is also part of why I couldn’t not read it.
- NYT 10 Best Books 2018
- Obama’s Favorite Books
- Bill Gates Holiday Reading List
- Goodreads Choice Award
- National Book Critics Circle Award
- Apple’s Best Memoir of the Year
- Oprah Magazine, Time, The Guardian, The Economist





